Tag: Relationships

2023 Valentine’s Day

Subject: Request for Investigation Tue, Feb 14, 1:09 PM To: president@uw.edu, salclark@uw.edu salclark@uw.edu, uciro@uw.edu Cc: houghgkl@um.dk, marksc@umgate.dk, um@um.dk, whistleblower@um.dk Dear President Cauce, I am an alumni of the University of Washington, 2007, 2011. The UW played a pivotal role in shaping and enhancing my life and career path in...

Dateline, July 14th 2022 Bastille Day

Marking the passing of 37 years of making the acquaintance of this man, Mr. Denmark, @Lars Christian Matthiesen. By turns and for all these years, my close friend, intimate partner, confidante, muse, and existential touchstone. I turn 70 on July 25th. For over half of my life Lars has...

Tell Me Your Secrets…About the Blog

I admit I have secrets, and I’ve told all of them, at least most of them, a lifetime of them, to Lars. Lars has secrets too. Many of his, most of his, over time he told me them or I discovered them. Including his penchant for women, for testing...

Introduction. I Meet Lars

I could never have known that over 36 years later that the man I met in July of 1985 in the bar at the Anthony’s Homeport restaurant on Shilshole Bay in Seattle, Lars, would turn out to be a narcissistic nightmare. He hid that persona from me for over...