Tell Me Your Secrets…About the Blog

I admit I have secrets, and I’ve told all of them, at least most of them, a lifetime of them, to Lars. Lars has secrets too. Many of his, most of his, over time he told me them or I discovered them. Including his penchant for women, for testing...

2023 Valentine’s Day

Subject: Request for Investigation Tue, Feb 14, 1:09 PM To: president@uw.edu, salclark@uw.edu salclark@uw.edu, uciro@uw.edu Cc: houghgkl@um.dk, marksc@umgate.dk, um@um.dk, whistleblower@um.dk Dear President Cauce, I am an alumni of the University of Washington, 2007, 2011. The UW played a pivotal role in shaping and enhancing my life and career path in...

Lars Letter

Dear Lars,  If nothing else what is happening to me is that I am finally standing up for myself and finally sharing with you how I have felt over time, how I have felt as things have occurred between us.   A lot of how I have related to...

Dateline, July 14th 2022 Bastille Day

Marking the passing of 37 years of making the acquaintance of this man, Mr. Denmark, @Lars Christian Matthiesen. By turns and for all these years, my close friend, intimate partner, confidante, muse, and existential touchstone. I turn 70 on July 25th. For over half of my life Lars has...

Introduction. I Meet Lars

I could never have known that over 36 years later that the man I met in July of 1985 in the bar at the Anthony’s Homeport restaurant on Shilshole Bay in Seattle, Lars, would turn out to be a narcissistic nightmare. He hid that persona from me for over...